Sunday, October 25, 2009

Conclusion From This Project


Because of this project,now i have learned something that are very useful.Before this,i have never thought that my life as a teenager has many problem and possibility to face a very great danger.Before this,i just a simple teen who are have simple life and not even once slipped in my mind that teen will have that such a dangerous problem...Now i aware that teen soul are very fragile and easily to be broken like a glass.so as teen who are aware of this matter,maybe i can find a simple solution to help my friends out there.this is very important because as i state earlier,a simple depression maybe can lead to suicide if not be prevented earlier.So some precaution MUST be taken right now if we do not want any unstable mind out there did something that may effect our beloved people.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Newspaper article about how serious is this problem!

THE CANADIAN PRESS
March 10, 2009

VANCOUVER – In a case of extreme parental alienation, a mother has been banned by a B.C. Supreme Court judge from seeing her teenage daughter for more than a year.

Because of the urgency of the matter, Justice Donna Martinson issued the terse, two-page ruling outlining 15 conditions the parents must follow, including that the mother, known only as Ms. A, not see her daughter until at least March 31, 2010.

The decision came after the mother alleged extreme emotional abuse by the father, which she claimed was putting the teenager's safety at risk.

"I am satisfied that Ms. A's allegations are unfounded," Martinson wrote.

"I am further satisfied that she has continued to undermine the relationship between M and her father and has acted in ways that are detrimental to M's psychological healing."

Names have been stripped from the court ruling to protect the girl's identity.

The judge has ordered that both the mother and maternal grandmother have no contact with the girl, which would be enforced by police if necessary.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

My action?






As a growing teenager, i also aware of this matter also have probability to make a teen go downward.i also aware that the great effect will make someone life turn into misery.And that's mean some precaution is need to be taken.faith and trust to god is the best way to avoid depression.Just pray 5times a day,and you will feel a very calm feeling inside of your body..as a muslims that was a benefits to us that we have our own way to avoid depression.just make sure that we follow what god told us to do and we will never felt any kind of bad feeling anymore.

Another Solution



Then if there are no way out,just imagine that you are in his position.try to understand his feeling and his emotion inside you.then maybe you will find something that might help.then remember that we are only a small creature in front of ALLAH SWT......SO why don't you start praying to him as he is the great one...everything he made has its own reason and nothing is impossible for him.....remember that he is just try to test our faith.

Thursday, October 15, 2009

HOW TO HELP(2nd steps)


If you cannot make any changes,then make an appointment with a doctors for a depression screening.BE ready to give information about your problem teen.This matter sometimes can be tricky ,particularly when it comes to treatment.But a professional is absolutely the gate away for this problems.UNDERSTANDING is the most important thing that should someone should have to help teen overcome his depression.Teen at this time is having a fight with his own emotion.To win that battle a support from nearest person is very needed.At this time teen felt exhausted,aggravation and any other negative feeling.Try to remember that what happen is not going on purpose.He just having some problem to follow the flow.Maybe with some advice from beloved person can make a very great changes.

HOW TO HELP(1st steps)


Helping teenagers who are depressed are very important.Depression can be very dangerous if left untreated.So never hope that this problem will just wash away like that and teen can get himself back.First try to talk to him.You know sometimes some talk can make a great changes.Talk to him in loving and caring way.Let him know and aware that you are care and concern abut what he face now.Encourage them and NEVER scold them.PLEASE understand their situation.When then talk to them,try to be gentle but persistence,and when they are talking try as best as you can to be a good listener.

Monday, October 12, 2009